Private consulting & coaching with Kat, The Unpackologist™

Bring me the thing you keep circling.

The decision. The relationship. The role you are tired of playing. The truth you know but keep negotiating with. You do not need a perfectly organized question. We start with what is real.

Kat, The Unpackologist

I see the shit under the shit under the shit.

What women actually bring

You can come in with the unpolished version.

You do not have to clean it up, make it sound reasonable, or know exactly what you need before you reach out.

“I know better, and I still did it.”

“Everybody thinks I have this handled. I do not.”

“I cannot tell whether I’m asking too much or accepting too little.”

“I keep explaining it, but something still does not make sense.”

“Something is off. I need another set of eyes on it.”

The Discipline of Unpacking™

We look at what is happening—and your part in it.

Unpacking means examining what may be overlooked, avoided, buried, or explained away. We look at the facts, the patterns, what belongs to you, what does not, and what becomes possible once you can see the whole thing.

I ask direct questions, tell you what I see, and offer perspective and recommendations when appropriate. You decide what fits and what you do with it.

Kat with women gathered in community

This did not begin with a consulting offer

I have been building rooms for women since 2006.

I founded You Can, Women in 2006. Over the years, I have created communities, retreats, events, workshops, and private spaces where women could say what was true without performing their way through it.

Those rooms shaped how I work now: direct, deeply contextual, human, and willing to stay with the part that does not fit the easy explanation.

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Past Rooms

Real women. Real rooms. Real conversations.

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Women gathered at an Unpack With Kat event Kat facilitating a room of women Women together in community with Kat
“This was a very safe space to engage in conversation that would be considered taboo in many places.” — Event participant

Work with Kat

Choose the amount of room you need.

One issue may need an hour. More history or moving pieces may need ninety minutes. Returning clients can use a shorter session to work with something already uncovered.

60 minutes

Individual Consulting & Coaching

$100

90 minutes

Extended Individual Consulting & Coaching

$150

Returning clients only · 30 minutes

Consulting & Coaching Working Session

$60

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You do not need to have the whole story organized.

Choose the session that fits.

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